We'll explain the emotional and story implications of whether Shadowheart should save her parents or kill them in BG3.
In Act 3 of Baldur’s Gate 3, Shadowheart faces one of her most difficult choices as the truth about her mysterious past is revealed. After unraveling the secrets of her family within the House of Grief, Shadowheart must now decide what to do with the parents she discovers there. Now you stand at a crossroads—can you save Shadowheart’s parents in BG3?
One of the important decisions Shadowheart faces in Baldur’s Gate 3 is whether to save or kill her parents. Both choices come with significant consequences for Shadowheart’s story and emotional state.
However, killing her parents is what Shar wants. If Shadowheart has already killed Nightsong in Act 2, carrying out Shar’s bidding reinforces her hold over Shadowheart.
The best choice depends on Shadowheart’s character progression. If the goal is to remove Shadowheart’s curse permanently, then killing her parents is the best choice. By killing them, they will turn into Moon Motes that guide others.
If making Shadowheart happily reunited with her family is the priority, then saving her parents is best. You will need to pass a high religion or persuasion check for Shadowheart to refuse to kill them.
There are plenty of such important decisions to make in this game. That’s why, we suggest you take a look at our BG3 Choices & Consequences Guide for help