How To Romance Lae’zel in Baldur’s Gate 3 (BG3)

Looking to woo Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3? Here's our Romance Guide that can help you gain her approval.

Those having a crush on Lae’zel can Romance her in Baldur’s Gate 3. But before it happens, you will have to reach the peak of your relationship with the Githyanki war machine. To make Lae’zel requite your feelings, you must gain her constant approval. And this is only possible if you manage to select dialogues and make decisions that favor her. So to help you through this, here’s our BG3 Lae’zel Romance Guide for you.

Lae’zel Romance Guide in BG3 (Approvals & Disapprovals)

Firstly, it is important that you know the nature of Lae’zel. Since your first meeting with her on the Nautiloid Ship, you can observe her fighter mindset. Identifying her traits is not that difficult, to be honest. You can easily know what she likes and what she doesn’t. A warrior character like Lae’zel will be satisfied if you make decisions that result in combat. So to gain Lae’zel’s Approval and Romance her in Baldur’s Gate 3 (BG3), you will have to shape yourself into an aggressive character.

Being appealing to characters who don’t have any soft spot is difficult. But Lae’zel can especially be attracted to you if you manage to favor decisions that match with Githyanki principles. Shadowheart is a character that opposes Lae’zel and all of the Githyanki race. If you truly want to Romance Lae’zel in Baldur’s Gate 3 (BG3), you must have to favor her against Shadowheart with eyes closed.

How To Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3 (BG3)

Another thing to keep in mind is that your character should not sound weak. Also, whenever you get to choose between peace and non-violence, the latter is the one you select. In short, if you want to Romance Lae’zel, here’s a list of DOs and DON’Ts for you:

  • Here’s what Lae’zel will approve:
    • Be aggressive and merciless
    • Choose violence over non-violence
    • Favor her in every conversation
    • Show respect and importance to Githyanki ideals
    • Whenever possible, show everyone who’s the boss around the camp
  • Here’s what Lae’zel will disapprove of:
    • Show sympathy towards others
    • Give priority to others’ opinions over her
    • Being against the ideologies of the Githyankis

The above things should be kept in mind while you be wooing Lae’zel in BG3.

Your very first intimate scene with her can be initiated in Act 1. All you got to do is Rescue the Druid Halsin and complete the side quest, Save the Refugees. And then, take a long rest and then find Lae’zel at the camp. During this conversation, you can show signs that you are interested in making love with her.

Besides this, you can Romance Lae’zel in Baldur’s Gate 3 (BG3) before the above segment. You just need to gain her Approval and talk to her whenever you can. If you have enough approval from her, then you can select the following dialogue while talking to her:

  • “Is it me, or have you been looking at me differently?”

And next, select the dialogue options that will allow you to share a bed with her. You will get multiple opportunities to talk about all your feelings with Lae’zel even during the events in Act 2 and Act 3. Just make sure to spend more time with her.

That’s all you can do to Romance Lae’zel in Baldur’s Gate 3 (BG3). Do you know which are all the Romanceable Characters? Make sure to check out our guide on it to know. And for more such informative content, head over to our BG3 section where we have stacked up plenty of helpful guides for you.